CHOICE OF MY BEING.

Naming of an individual, is it a matter of reason, passion, desire, chance, nature, habit or compulsion. Does the name that is assigned to an individual have an irrational aspect to it; influencing the behavior and character of the persona?  Choose a character that not only redefines the name assigned to you, simply by creating a name that is worth another individual owning.
Association is the process of bringing ideas or events together in memory and imagination. Sort of, how the goals or objectives that one has decided upon them help measure the unknown mysteries of the life that will unfold.
Assigned; the appointment to a task or duty. First born siblings are a role model to the rest of the siblings; this is what socialization has appointed them to be. The task of being a leader is tested in all factual ways; economically, financially, spiritually, physically, emotionally and psychologically. One has to adhere to the un-identified pressure to fulfill a role or more, could be to feel that the obligation set upon has been fulfilled. Who knows?

The choice of one’s being should not be measured only by the association and assignment placed on their head, it should come from an alive soul that nourishes the person to be a force to reckon with in any situation or circumstances that come with the package of life. This comes into life with the quest to experience, understand, criticize, applaud, innovate and redefine all areas that one limits them to. The power is all in the being.


Labels are a part of how we can distinguish different aspects of what surrounds us. Gender labels, on the other hand are irrelevant in the associations that we hold so dear to our chest. Irrelevant in that, gender is heterosexist and only have two classifications, in the expansion of the knowledge spectrum that the world offers to us, we learn that this two are not the only aspects that distinguish between humans. Intersex persons and Trans persons are not included in this general label. The perception that we have of the "difference" between the two have been greatly challenged. This is through the interactions and simple observations of our societies throughout different time periods.
It saddens my soul…. all this unnecessary choices of our being.